Ketua dan ketiga

Mama tanya Adi Haikal "Adi, siapa jadi ketua darjah? (preschool)"

Adi Haikal jawab macam ni.. "Daniel la. Asik Daniell..Danielll.. Daniellll!" muka tak puas hati.

Mama pun rasa bersalah sebab mama yg sibuk2 tanya kan..

"Takpelah.. Biarla Daniel jadi ketua darjah. So, Adi jadi apa?"

"Adi jadi ketiga jee.."

kwangkwangkwang...

Ali Baba Bujang Lapok..

Malam tadi layan cerita Ali Baba Bujang Lapok buat kesekian kalinya.

Ada satu scene P.Ramlee pakai baju koboi cakap kat sorang perempuan ni..

"Demi Allah, kanda tak tipu!"  - lebih kurang macam tu la dialognya.

Terus si Adi Haikal cakap "Mama, tadi kan kat sekolah Cikgu Rahimah cakap kita tak boleh nampak Awwah. Awwah tu besar tapi kita tak boleh nampak Awwah. Alif Lam Lam Ha AWWAH!" (maafkan dia, dia pelat)

Terus si Syuhada pulak sambut "AWWAH! AWWAH!" (maafkan dia, dia pelat juga)

Si Mama angguk-angguk setuju.

Terus si Adi haikal pegi depan tv dan tunjuk P.Ramlee sambil cakap "Mama! Ni lah Awwah!"

sambil si Syuhada cakap "AWWAH! AWWAH!"

Terusla lah si Mama melompat sambil berkata " Oh tidak anakku! Itu bukan Allah! Itu ketua penyamunnnn!!"

Adi Haikal insist "Iye! Nilah Awwah. Tadi dia cakap!"

"Bukan! Tu ketua penyamunn! Sudah. Pergi tukar cerita kartun.."


T_____T

Entry Hari Ibu...

Dah lama tak buat cerita pasal Haikal kan. So, harini saya nak cerita sikit tentang budak bernama Adi Haikal Amirudin..

Adi Haikal ni merupakan budak yang suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuka sangat menguji tahap kesabaran mak bapak dia. Everyday without fail dia akan buat Mama dia naik hantu dan bertukar menjadi raksasa citer ultraman. Ada saja akal dia tau.

Saya bagi contoh situasi di kedai makan. (Mood mama 100% happy sebab nak makan :) , tahap kesabaran 100% lagi)

Sampai2 je kedai makan kalau ada jual gula2/jajan situlah ditujunya. Selagi tak dapat gula2/jajan tu dia akan merengek2 dan terus membawa kepada menjerit2 dan meraung2. Untuk mengelakkan jeritan dan raungan tu maka selalunya kami belikan ajer apa yang dia nak. (Tahap sabar down to 95%).

Duduk kat meja makan, Haikal pon makan gula2 tu. Tapi dia bukan sekadar makan. Gula2 yang dah masuk mulut dia luak & pegang2 dengan kedua2 belah tangan yang sedia maklum belum dibasuh. Lepas tu dia masuk mulut balik sambil jilat2 tapak tangan. Saya cakap “Adi, jangan buat camtu..” dengan suara manja sbb kat kedai makan kan tapi dia buat deeek ajer…(Tahap sabar down lagi to 90%).

Lepas tu dia sapu tangan dia yang melekit2 tu kat muka, rambut dan seluar baju. Saya repeat lagi “Adi, jangan buat camtu..” dengan suara yang agak kuat tapi Adi Haikal still buat deeek je lagi.… (Tahap sabar down lagi to 80%).

Selalu kat kedai makan lepas order air sampai dulu kan.. Bila air sampai maka situasi yang selalu terjadi ialah berebut air. Yaya dengan Haikal ni kannn.. Selagi Haikal tak dapat dia akan jerit2.. Bila Haikal dah dapat air Yaya plak merajuk. Budak tu kan kuat menangis.. …(Tahap sabar down lagi to 70%). Solution ialah order 2 jenis air yang sama.

Lepas air datang makanan pulak sampai.. Haikal nak makan sendiri takmo bersuap. Fine. Bila bagi makanan selain dari makan dia buat main2. Jangan di marah. Kalau marah nanti dia akan luakkan apa yang dia tengah makan sambil ludah2.. Ewwwwww!!!! Gerammnyaaaaaaaa!!!!! Macam taknak mengaku anak sendiri bley tak?? Nak makan pon dah takde mood tau! (Tahap sabar crashing down lagi to 50%). Time ni selalu tangan dah naik. Tapi kalu kena cubit apa lagi.. siren polis dia pon bunyik la kan.. Meraung tak hengat.

Lepas makan 5-6 suap selalunya budak Adi Haikal ni dah restless da. “Adi nak turunnnn… Adi nak turunnnn..” selagi tak turun itula yang dia rengekkan. Lama2 kalu tak di layan dia menjerit lagi. Aduuuuhhhhh!!!! Tensiii gue! Okey, fine. Turunkan dia dari baby chair dan biar dia berlari2 dalam kedai makan. Tapi apa kes bila dia start duduk2 atas lantai & baring golek2? Anak aku kah itu? Sekali lagi takmo mengaku anak bley tak??? Huhuhuhuuu… So saya sound dia “ADI! TAKMO BARING2 ATAS LANTAI! KOTOR!” Ada dia kesah??? Nan adooo.. (Tahap sabar turun menjadi 40%).

Nak di jadikan cerita lepas dia baring2 golek2 atas lantai dia datang balik kat meja makan. Sambung makan ke, minum ke, pastu sapu2 makanan yang tumpah atas meja & pijak2 makanan yang jatuh atau yang dia luakkan tadi.. Aduhaaaiiii… Orang meja sebelah kadang2 ada jugak yang memberikan jelingan manja. (Saya punya sabar down lagi 30%)

TINGGGG TOOONGGGG!!!! TAHAP KESABARAN ANDA SUDAH MENCECAH 30%. ANDA ADALAH FAIL! SILA BALIK RUMAH SECEPAT MUNGKIN SEBAB ANDA DAH TAKDE MOOD NAK BUAT APA2.

Itulah pasal bila sampai kat umah budak tu buat perkara2 yang ntah hapa2 saya jadik naik hantu. Sebabnya saya dah takde sabar.. Dah habis bersabar dari kedai makan lagi.

TAPI.. TAPI… TAPI…

Lepas saya marah2 & babab Haikal atau anak2 saya yang lain mesti saya rasa menyesal. Mesti saya rasa sedih sbb buat camtu. Kalau boleh memang saya takmo sampai tahap tangan naik ke badan. Saya sedih tauu..

Sebabnya.. walau macam manapun saya marah atau babab anak2 saya, pagi2 bila hantar budak2 pergi sekolah mesti dia cium tangan saya. Mesti kiss pipi saya. Kalau tidur malam mesti nak saya peluk. Kalau tak peluk pun pegang tangan pun jadi la. BUDAK2 NI MEMANG MANJA TAUUUU…

And deep down inside of me walau semarah dan senaik hantu mana pun saya, saya TETAP sayang anak2 saya. SAAAAAAAAAAAYANG SANGAT.

happy mother's day to me...

Special entry for my darling Adi Haikal..

Adi Haikal is 3 years old today

ALLAH SELAMAT KAN KAMU..
ALLAH SELAMATKAN KAMU..
ALLAH SELAMATKAN ADI HAIKAL..
ALLAH SELAMATKAN KAMUUU...

Happy Birthday Adi Haikal.. Semoga jadi anak yang cerdik dan beriman..
Abah, Mama, Yaya & Ada will always love you

Tempatkan dia di syurga....

(Tajuk di atas tiada kena mengena dengan entry di bawah. Tajuk tersebut di ambil sempena drama Maal Hijrah malam tadi yang membuat air mataku mengalir....)

Salam semua,

Semakin hari semakin jarang update blog ni. Sebab utama malassss.... malas cari idea nak mengarang. Pembawaan budak kot. Harini den takde keroje kat opis tetiba teringin nak mengupdate serba sedikit pasal kehidupan di akhir tahun 2010 ni..

Pasal saya...

Saya dah masuk 36 minggu. Orang jawa kata "term already". Kalau terberanak kira dah cukup bulan. Namun yang demikian persediaan untuk menerima orang baru baru saja berlangsung minggu ni. Semalam cuti umum sempena Maal Hijrah dimanafaatkan untuk mengirai baju-baju baby yang lama2 tu tenguk yang mana sesuai lagi untuk di kitar semula. Mittens n booties rasanya dah cukup. Sempat juga shopping 2-3 pasang baju baru weekend lepas.

Persediaan untuk ibu bersalin yilek. Baru buat checklist...

Saya adalah sangat besar macam ikan paus. Sekarang ni kuat makan, makan sikit2 je tapi kerap dan cepat lapar sebab kapasiti perut yang semakin mengecil disebabkan penggunaan ruang oleh baby yang membesar dengan jayanya. Kadang-kadang terjaga jam 2-3 pagi carik makanan dan minum milo sebab lapar.

Pasal Yaya...

Perkembangan Yaya sangat memberangsangkan. Dia dapat no. 2 bagi peperiksaaan di Tadika bagi murid-murid kategori 5 tahun. Masa majlis penyampaian hadiah dia menari lagu hindustan..

Sekarang Yaya dah pandai membaca. So saya tak boleh kelentong sebab dia boleh baca info ASTRO. Dia tau lepas kartun Fukuchan cerita Asarichan pulak. Lepas tu sambung dengan Nonochan...

Kelmarin juga Yaya kehilangan gigi susu yang pertama. Gigi kacip bawah sebatang. Dah lama perasan gigi bawah tu makin lama makin senget. Bila nak cabut Yaya kata sakit. So biarkan je la sampaila kelmarin balik sekolah saya check gigi tu dah terkeluar pangkal gigi. Bila saya tolak keluar gigi tu nampak ada gigi baru yang nak tumbuh. OOOhh.. sebab tu gigi susu tercabut. Bukan sebab rosak, elok je gigi susu tu takde kerosakan mahupun kaviti...


Pasal Haikal..

Budak bertuah ni tersangatlah aktifnya. Masih belum fasih berbahasa Malaysia, tapi sedikit sebanyak sudah boleh menyusun ayat yang membuatkan kami sekeluarga sangat impress dengan kebolehan beliau itu. Sangat pandai melawak. Sangat sukakan kenderaan seperti kapal terbang, keretapi dan motosikal. Belum di toilet train oleh ibu bapa walaupun beliau ada menunjukkan keinginan untuk buang air di toilet

Pasal en. suami...

E'eh.. Beliau tak kasik bercerita pasal kehidupan beliau.. so saya pun takmo cerita.. hehehhehehhe...


That's all for now

Yaya dan Haikal*2

Suatu hari...

"Abah, Mama ni kan asik makannnn ajer.... Rasa macam dah gemuk sangat daa..." kata Mama sambil perasan risau..

"Takpela.. kan Mama nak bagi baby makan sekali.."

Cuba teka siapa yang berkata2 di atas tu? Bukan Abah, bukan Mama, tapi Yaya! Hihihiiii..

"Betulla kakak! Pandaila kakak ni.. saaaaayang kakak!" kata Mama lagi.. :-)



Abah tanya Yaya nak baby boy ke baby girl? Yaya kata nak baby girl..

"Abes tu kalau dapat boy macam mana?" Abah tanya...

"Ermmm..." Yaya diamm je..

"Kalau dapat boy kakak nak bagi dia nama apa?" Abah tanya lagi..

"Kakak nak bagi dia nama Haikal je.." jawab Yaya.

"Laaa... kan dah ada Haikal, kenapa nak bagi nama yang sama?" Mama plak tanya..

"Biarlah! Nanti kalau kakak panggil "HAIKALLLL!" dua-dua datang. Kan senang!" jawab Yaya dengan penuh berhemah..

Ye tak ye jugak kan.... Hihihihiiiiiii.. bagus la kakak ni. Good idea!

Special entry untuk anak bujangku seorang...

Happy 2nd Birthday
ADI HAIKAL AMIRUDIN
14 April 2010

Birthday cuppies...

Getting a new haircut on his birthday...

Birthday present from his nursery teachers...

Adi Haikal @ 2 years old..

Adi Haikal @ D7OL (Day 7 of Life..)


Adi Haikal @ 1 year old...


Abah, Mama & Kakak will always love you....

Peace!

Peace semer!
Haikal peace satu jari je.. hihihi..

Dak Haikal

Haikal kan sekarang ni macam2 akal dia. Tapi bila dia buat salah kalu kita tanya mesti dia salahkan orang lain.

Semalam dia cungkil2 pensel kaler Yaya kat mainan piano dia pastu patah..
"YA ALLAH!" kata Haikal.
"Mamaaa... nii...." sambil tunjuk pensel yg patah..

"Ha! Sapa buat? Sapa patahkan?"

"Adammmm..."

Kalau org tanya sapa buat selalu dia cakap Adam, budak kat nursery dia..

"Tak, mama nampak Haikal yang buat kan? Mama cubit nak?"

"Nanakkk...." sambil peluk mama

"Habis tu sapa yang buat?"

"Bebear..."

Bear pon jadi mangsa fitnah..



*semenjak 2-3 menjak ni asik upload gambo lama2 je..

Sedappp...

Buat yang dah lama tak nenguk gambar anak2ku, inilah diorg latest ku amik gambar petang tadi selepas hujan di depan pintu rumah. Yaya tolong sikatkan ranbut Haikal sambil buatkan remos. "Rambut kacak" katanya...

Sempena El-Nino yang sedang melanda, ku buat teh tiga lapis ni sejajar dengan tuntutan anak tekak yang mahukan sesuatu yang sangat lazat, dingin dan menyegarkan... Cubalah!



Ini pula mee goreng basah special made by suami yang sangat rajin goreng mee itu..

Mama dan Anak2...

Semenjak ada BB (broadbengong) ni saya menjadi semakin malas untuk update blog. Setakat entry biasa2 saja no hal, tapi saya ketandusan idea. Saya lebih suka dengan entry yang bergambar sebab a picture worth a thousand words. Sangat sesuai untuk orang-orang yang takde idea macam saya. Dahla BB tu signal cam hampess, nak upload gambar berjam2. Kalau ada entry bergambar tu maknanya saya tengah sabar ya amat la tu..Dan signal pun very good atau excellent gitu..

It's already August 2009 and I only come out with 45 entries this year. Sangat tidak produktif.

Saya suka bercucuk tanam. Sekarang saya ada hobi bercucuk tanam di facebook. Balik rumah terus on laptop sebab nak tenguk dah boleh tuai ke belum. Suami geleng kepala. Bila berebut nak tenguk tv dengan budak2 saya give up. Terus jenguk kebun.

"Mama ni asik main tanam-tanam ajer..." kata Yaya.

"Abes tu mama takmau tenguk citer katun.. Mama mainla tanam-tanam. Awak tenguk la citer kartun awak tu.."

"Nanti lepas mama habis tanam2 Yaya pulak nak main game ye. Mama tenguk citer masak-masak ye.." Yaya cuba berdiplomasi...

"Okey..."

Bila suami conquer internet saya terpaksa tenguk citer kartun.. Makanya saya pula yang akan berdiplomasi dengan Yaya

"Yaya, nanti lepas habis tenguk citer kartun ni kita tenguk masak-masak pulak ye. Lepas tenguk masak-masak kita tenguk citer kartun lagi. Okey?"

"Okey.." jawab Yaya.

Tapi kalau saya nak continue tenguk citer masak-masak lain lepas tu maka saya usulkan begini pula.

"Yaya, kalau Yaya bagi mama tenguk citer masak-masak lain lepas ni, nanti esok Mama belikan Yaya jajan kat opis mama"

"Okey!" jawab Yaya..

Macam-macam kan....

As for Haikal, aiyooooo.. I never thought raising a boy would be this tough! I Can't imagine how it would be to have multiple boys to be taken care off. Sure hypertension. Dahle I have strong family history for hypertension. Haikal saaaaaaangat lasak (as compared to Yaya when she was at his age). Acik tak terlarat nak melayan kerenahnya. Again, bila ku dah tension ya amat ku pon mulalah berkebun. Bagi silent treatment kat budak tu. Biarle dia jerit ke, mengamuk ke, throw tantrum ke, bila dia dah senyap baru ku peluk n dukung dia. Hopefully he'll learn from this punishment /reward. Kawan2, kalau ada petua untuk lembutkan hati budak2 share2 la dengan saya ye..

TQ

Budak kuat merajuk....

"Siaaaaaaaapa budak suka merajuk?"

"AYAAAAAAAAAAAA!" (SAYA!) sambil angkat tangan.....

"Siaaaaaaa..." (tak sempat habiskan soalan..)

"AYAAAAA!!" sambil angkat tangan...

Be strong, boy!

Haikal jadi mangsa buli sepupunya (sebaya tapi sepupunya tua 2 bulan).
Pantang lepa berdebik2 Haikal kena pukul.
Semalam, masa di kampung saya terlupa tentang sepupu Haikal tu. Tau2 Haikal dah meraung2 kena debik.
Saya hepp budak tu(kira marah la tu...) Saya kata NO!NO!NO! jangan pukul2 orang, tak baik! tapi budak tu baru setahun 2 bulan, apalah yang dia paham sangat kan.
Lepas dari tu saya peratiii je dia. Dia still debik Haikal, tapi sangat perlahan, sambil matanya mengawasi saya. Setiap kali Haikal kena debik perlahan tu, Haikal terus tenguk saya sambil buat muka minta tolong. Tapi dia tak menangis sebab tak sakit. Saya pulak akan perhatikan sambil senyum pada Haikal. Saya nak latih Haikal to be tougher. Kena debik sikit takpe dik, jangan nangis. Adik takleh manja sangat dengan Mama, nanti kalau Mama takde siapa nak tolong?

Rasa kelakar pulak dengan situasi tu.

Present from Mama..

Ni hadiah mama untuk Haikal. Hadiah beg baju ajer.. Kwang kwang kwang....

Dahtu, Haikal kan kecit lagi, Mama tak tau apa yang Haikal nak. What I do know is that you really need a new bag for the nursery. Kesian mama tenguk beg Haikal yang lama tu, zip atas tu dah rosak, lining kat dalam tu dah koyak, cian anak mama.. Almaklum, dah setahun guna tak pernah tukar.

Dengan beg baru nih ok la kan... nampak bergaya la sket..

Mama ingat nak beli yang kaler pink pulak untuk birthday Yaya nanti.. kwang kwang kwang

Haikal's birthday.. ~ Sequel

Semalam time ambil budak-budak dari nursery, Haikal melaram pakai baju n kasut cekelat nih. Alamak! Sapa bagi nih? Rupa2nya 'mama angkat' dia kat nursery yang belikan, birthday present Haikal katanya. Alahai... susah-susah ajer. TQ ye Ain..

Kami celebrate birthday Haikal dengan makan2 di Kenny Rogers, sebabnya budak2 ni suka sangat makan macaroni & cheese dan baked beans. Lagipun semalam saya puasa, kira ok la makan situ kan, tapikan portion dia saya perati makin lama makin ciput, harga plak makin mahal.

Saya tanya Yaya, tadi kat sekolah Yaya tiupkan tak lilin birthday cake Haikal? Yaya jawab tak! Cikgu yang tiupkan! Aiyoyo! mama siap pesan lagi kat cikgu soh Yaya yang tiup. Camne tu?

Happy Birthday ADI HAIKAL! :-)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ADI HAIKAL SAYANG. MAMA DOAKAN SEMOGA HAIKAL JADI ANAK YANG BAIK, IKUT CAKAP MAMA & ABAH, RAJIN, BIJAK, COMEL, DLL :-)

PHOTOS OF BIRTHDAY BOY, TAKEN TODAY. SILA ABAIKAN MUKA SHOMOTS BUCUK MASYAM BLOM MANDI PAGI TU.

HAIKAL'S 1ST BIRTHDAY CAKE. I COULDN'T FIND CAKE WITH SUPERHEROES IMAGES LARGE ENOUGH FOR THE KIDS AT THE NURSERY. BUGS BUNNY PUN BOLEH LA YE HAIKAL. IT'S THE THOUGHT THAT COUNTS WHAATT.... :-)

ADI HAIKAL....~ menjelang 1 tahun...

Photos taken yesterday, 12.4.09.

Lupa bawak pacifier bucuk dia time jenjalan di alamanda.

The only way to keep him happy was to make sure he had something to munched all the time.

Note the new haircut. Abah dia yg gunting selepas mama dia suruh dah dekat 2 bulan. Lepas nampak mama pegang gunting cepat2 dia take over. Encem tak?

Cikgu Yaya..

"Adik! mari sini kakak ajar baca buku."

Haikal ye ye aaa mengadap Yaya dan buku dengan air liur yang merembes2. Bila la air liur dia nak berenti merembes nih..

"Ok, berapa dia ada 2 ekor?"

Haikal nganga sambil merembes..

"Gajah la adik! Gajah ada 2 ekor.."

hehehehehhehehehe.. Eceli ada 2 ekor gajah..

Baby at 11 months

Tomorrow 14.3.09, Haikal will hit 11 month old. Kejap je dah nak setahun...

Growing physical independence
Now that she's only one month shy of her first birthday, your baby is no longer that helpless infant who couldn't do anything without you. She still needs plenty of care and support, but her growing independence -- evident in her solo standing, stooping, and squatting -- is becoming apparent. She may walk while gripping your hand, and she'll hold out her arm or leg to help you dress her. At mealtimes, she may be able to grip a cup and drink from it independently (though some children may not do this for a few more months) and hand-feed herself an entire meal. Of course, once your child is able to drink from a cup by herself, you may need to start ducking, because she's just as likely to toss it when she's finished as she is to put it down gently. She'll also purposely drop objects for someone, probably you, to pick up.
*Haikal is currently all of the above - grin. Lots of bumps and bruises compared to Yaya last time. Yaya sangat berhati-hati dan jarang sangat jatuh dan buat perkara2 yang adventurous

Books for your little reader
Your child likes to look at books and leaf through the pages, though she won't always turn them one by one. She may have favourite books too, that she likes to come back to time and again.
*Haikal suka tenguk dan makan buku. Mudah2an dia rajin baca buku macam mama dia jugak. Aminnn... muahahahaha..

Becoming her own person
At this age your baby may assert herself among her siblings and begin to engage in parallel play -- contentedly playing alongside (but not with) another child. She may also have designated a favourite blanket or stuffed animal as a security object.
*Haikal sangat obsess dengan bola, dia suka main catch d ball dgn Yaya. Suka ambil apa saja mainan dari tangan Yaya dan tidur sambil peluk teddybear (Yaya punya jugak).

Time to start setting limits
Your baby now probably understands simple instructions and may purposely choose to ignore you when you say no. (To help the word carry a little more weight, reserve its use for things that are truly dangerous.) But even though your baby may not always remember tomorrow what you've said today, it's not too soon to set certain boundaries and start teaching her right from wrong. You're not being mean if you don't let her devour a second cake; you're setting limits. If she pulls kitty's tail, move her hand, look her in the eye, and say, "No, that hurts the cat." Then guide your daughter's hand to pet the animal gently. Her desire to explore is stronger than her desire to listen to your warnings, so it's up to you to protect and teach her. What seems to be defiance isn't; it's just her natural curiosity to see how the world works.

Talking up a storm
Words and wordlike sounds are now spilling out of your baby -- words she's now able to use meaningfully. As the frontal lobes of her brain gradually develop, coinciding with the arrival of higher cognitive abilities such as reasoning and speech, you can continue to encourage her interest in language by avidly listening and responding to her words and babbling. This type of interaction is crucial to teaching her about two-way communication. Playing games such as patta-cake and peekaboo will help polish her memory skills. At this age, your baby can probably imitate word sounds and inflections as well as actions. She may be able to follow simple directions, such as "Please bring me the ball" or "Pick up the spoon." Help her learn by separating commands into easy-to-follow steps. Cherish this brief but remarkable period when your baby's communication skills are emerging: They're perhaps the most important ability she'll ever have.
*Rasa2nya Haikal dah faham kalu cakap macam ni:
- Salam mama - dia pegang tangan kita n cium sambil makan jari kita
- mama mintak - dia bagi apa yang dia pegang
- no no no! - nanti dia pukul tangan kita, tapi pukul pelan je sambil senyum2. so cute!
- kipas mana kipas? Lampu mana lampu? - dia tenguk atas sambil tunjuk lampu n kipas
-Haikal jump! - nanti dia ala2 lompat2 sambil sengih2
- Haikal abum - nanti dia terus carik port nak landing (abum means baring)

tu je la kot...

Baby at 9 month..

My dear Adi Haikal turn 9 mo today... Ish, ish, ish... rasa cam baru je beranakkan budak ni, lagi 3 bulan dah setahun umurnya..

Let see what a 9mo can do....

Almost walking
Your baby is getting closer and closer to full-fledged walking. At this age she can probably crawl up stairs and cruise, moving around upright while holding onto furniture. A few nine-month-olds may even take a few steps -- with support. Your baby is also learning how to bend her knees and how to sit after standing (which is harder to master than you might think!). You can help your baby by standing or kneeling in front of her and holding out your hands encouragingly, by holding both her hands and walking her toward you; or by buying a toddle truck or a similar contraption your baby can hold onto and push (look for toddle toys that are stable and have a wide base of support).

Childproofing your home is a necessity now. One good place to start is to put latches on the doors of off-limits cupboards -- babies inevitably make a beeline for such things.
* Ohhh... idokle nampak budak Haikal ni in the verge of walking... Ate, masih lagi angkat2 punggung macam merangkak tapi tak bergerak kemana pun.. Kalau dalam walker memang laju le dia bergeraknya, kaki pun macam ala2 berjalan.. but not by himself. Dia dah boleh berdiri with support.. means: meniarap-pegang badan mama-and push himself to stand.

Shoes? Not yet
When their babies start standing and cruising, many parents wonder if shoes are necessary. Until your baby is walking around outdoors regularly, most experts don't think so. Going barefoot not only can help strengthen your child's arches and leg muscles but, according to Penelope Leach in Your Baby and Child, it can also make it easier for your baby to balance when her shoeless feet are free to feel all the textures of what she's walking on.
* Kalu kat rumah takde maknenye nak pakai kasut nih semer... heheheheh

Playing and learning
Your baby can now put objects in a container and remove them. Give her a plastic bucket and some colourful blocks (make sure they're not so small she can swallow them) so she can practise this new skill. She also likes toys with moving parts, such as wheels, levers, or doors that open and close. Big plastic cars that your baby can roll around on the floor are fun playthings for both boys and girls. If you take a toy away from her, your increasingly assertive baby is likely to object. She's really starting to be able to make her needs and wants known. About half of all nine-month-olds will initiate passing games, giving away toys and then taking them back. Be her playmate. Try rolling a ball to your baby when you're playing on the floor and see if she rolls it back to you. Give her a sorting toy or stacking rings and see if she sorts or stacks or hands the pieces to you.
*Iye... Haikal suka sangat main dengan whatever toys available. Kalau nampak kakak Yaya punya bucket of blocks he will run after it and topple it down. Lepas tu dia baling2 blocks tu, and kakak Yaya akan bising sebab adik dia main mainan dia...

Coping with separation
Now, and for the next few months, is when separation anxiety is at its peak. Although it's normal for a nine-month-old to show an extreme attachment to you and fear of everyone else, it can be difficult for doting grandparents and caregivers. You can help ease the transition for your child by warning people to approach slowly and letting the baby make the first move. If your child uses a thumb or a dummy to soothe herself or settle down as she tries to cope with her anxiety, that's okay. Sucking is one of your baby's only methods of calming herself.

*Haiiyaaa.. ini budak sikalang aa tatak muleh tatak nampak mama dia ooo... terus ajer melalak. Kalau weep ajer okey lagi, ini sampai ke tahap menjerit2 sampai satu Taman boleh dengar... aduhaiiiii.... Tapikan, haikal tak takut orang la.. Dengan sapa2 ajer dia boleh tegur2

Trying to travel
This can be a tough age to travel with your baby. Your child likes predictability, and travelling disturbs her routines. If you do travel, be prepared for a grumpy, clingy child. Have plenty of distractions ready -- picture books, noise-making toys, and, most importantly, her security object. And if she uses a dummy, it's wise to bring along a handful: they seem to vanish just when you need them most.

*Oh, mama silap percaturan ke bawak Haikal travel last month ke Penang? Tapi haikal okey2 ajer cuma dia cepat boring kalau lama dalam kereta. So we have to make a stop whenever dia da start meragam, keluar jalan2 jap amik angin and then continue with the journey.

Language comprehension
The torrent of words your child has been hearing since birth is beginning to work its magic. By now, your baby's understanding of words far outpaces her ability to use them, and her babbling is probably starting to sound more like real words, including "ma" and "da." (Don't get too excited just yet -- they're more than likely not actual words, just a couple of the host of sounds she babbles constantly.) At this stage your child still comprehends more from your tone than from your actual words. The more you talk to her -- while preparing dinner, driving, or getting dressed -- the more your baby learns about communication. In fact, one study found that the greatest predictor of later intelligence is how many words a child hears daily. Of course, idle background chatter and time spent parked in front of the TV don't count -- to help your baby's comprehension, she must hear words and language used interactively. At nine months, a baby begins to understand the word "no," but she may not obey just yet. However, she will respond to her name by looking around or by stopping what she's doing to see who called. Reinforce her recognition behaviour by saying her name frequently.

*"HAIKAL...." kalu panggil gini cepat je dia datang sambil sengih2 kerang bucuk. Kenkadang panggil "ADIK.." pun dia datang jugak. Saya pasti dia dah pandai sebut "ABAH" sebab everytime dia nampak abah itulah yang disebutnya. Nampak abah jauh, lagi kuat dia sebut (panggil le tu). Kakak Yaya dia panggil "DADAK"